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Hi, i had some questions about moving out at 17 and not getting myself or boyfriend who's 18 in trouble. can anyone help me???

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Joined today. First post. Skeleton profile. This appears to be a loaded question. Good luck. Members will stay 200 miles south of this question.

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Holy crap, there needs to be a filter.


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 How about trying marriage.  Not the  answer you want ?   O well  Tallgov will you pass me some butte brickle ice cream please? 



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Something trollish about this one, but I would like to keep an a wait and sea stance at this point.


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countrylover13, if you're coming here for that kind of advice, I'm afraid it's too late...


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countrylover13 says ...



Hi, i had some questions about moving out at 17 and not getting myself or boyfriend who's 18 in trouble. can anyone help me???



People like you need a serious Baba in their life so she can get the siba and knock that foolishness out of your head!


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Hmm, this is something best left to address with your school's guidance counselor.   You are still in school?  Right??

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 trust me ive checked in most every state  unless your parents agree to it or kick you out then it wont happen. wait until youre 18 and see if you still want to move in with him. moving in with someone is a big step. good luck.

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I can tell you, although you won't believe me, because you think that at 17 you already know everything there is to know, that at 17, you do not know enough about life to move out and start your own life with this guy or anyone else.  At 17, you are still a minor child in the eyes of the court.  Your parents are responsible for you legally and financially until the day you turn 18.  You can probably file to be an emancipated adult, meaning that you can show the court that you are finishing school and have a physical means to support yourself and have your parent(s) sign off on it.  That said and not knowing how long until your 18th birthday, is it really worth all that or can you just wait............ or is exercising a little bit of patience too difficult for you.  Don't be in such a hurry to grow up that you put yourself in a position to learn some real hard and difficult lessons from making some really bad and poorly thought out decisions and choices at such a young age.

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countrylover13 says ...



Hi, i had some questions about moving out at 17 and not getting myself or boyfriend who's 18 in trouble. can anyone help me???



Ask Mom & Dad. (although SkoolCop has some pretty wise words ^^^^^)


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Have you tried Familylink? ;)

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I'm guessing your name may be Laura.  All you have to do is get a TRO if Steve Urkel Continues to stalk you...


Wait, this is a post about "FAMILY MATTERS" right?


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Yes I remember when I was 18... I did know everything! ROTFLMBO


OK while I knew more than 99.9 % of the people my age it wasn't till I hit about 25 that I looked back & thought OMGosh I didn't know anything! Now at 29 I think WOW I learn something new every day....


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I can tell you, although you won't believe me, because you think that at 17 you already know everything there is to know, that at 17, you do not know enough about life to move out and start your own life with this guy or anyone else.  At 17, you are still a minor child in the eyes of the court.  Your parents are responsible for you legally and financially until the day you turn 18.  You can probably file to be an emancipated adult, meaning that you can show the court that you are finishing school and have a physical means to support yourself and have your parent(s) sign off on it.  That said and not knowing how long until your 18th birthday, is it really worth all that or can you just wait............ or is exercising a little bit of patience too difficult for you.  Don't be in such a hurry to grow up that you put yourself in a position to learn some real hard and difficult lessons from making some really bad and poorly thought out decisions and choices at such a young age.


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Now to the OP (Original Poster) Sweetheart your only 17 if things are so bad at home that you need to get out don't be stupid. Find a family member or female friend to move in with. It's never a good idea at such a young age to live with a member of the opposite sex. I know this from experience. While my hubby & I have a beautiful 2.5yr old son & have been together for 12yrs now. We have also been through a LOT & both wish that things were/had been different. PLEASE be smart about whatever decision you make!


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