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What do you do when someone ask for your frienship and then you find out after accepting on PL there is no such person.I feel safe on PL.This guy lied to me I think.Said he is new.Now I'm unsure an it is hard for me to trust as it is.This makes it harder as I am to friendly sometimes.Now what!!!!It makes me feel to trusrt then again now not to.Why won't he answer.It hard if your not a Police Officer and someone does this to you.Any advice for me.

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Most of the people on here are good, but dont forget about all the Trolls on here!


 


Dont let it get to you............

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What do you do when someone ask for your frienship and then you find out after accepting on PL there is no such person.I feel safe on PL.This guy lied to me I think.Said he is new.Now I'm unsure an it is hard for me to trust as it is.This makes it harder as I am to friendly sometimes.Now what!!!!It makes me feel to trusrt then again now not to.Why won't he answer.It hard if your not a Police Officer and someone does this to you.Any advice for me.


 


I apologize, but I'm confused a little bit.  What do you mean by "there is no such person".  How long were you friends with the said person? Do you mind giving me some more details/background? You are more than welcome to PM me.



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angels4ever says ...



What do you do when someone ask for your frienship and then you find out after accepting on PL there is no such person.I feel safe on PL.This guy lied to me I think.Said he is new.Now I'm unsure an it is hard for me to trust as it is.This makes it harder as I am to friendly sometimes.Now what!!!!It makes me feel to trusrt then again now not to.Why won't he answer.It hard if your not a Police Officer and someone does this to you.Any advice for me.


 


I apologize, but I'm confused a little bit.  What do you mean by "there is no such person".  How long were you friends with the said person? Do you mind giving me some more details/background? You are more than welcome to PM me.




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Most of the people on here are good, but dont forget about all the Trolls on here!


 


Dont let it get to you............


 


Thank-You .I know I feel so safe on here and now this because I let my facebook say I like PL and another one.


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Angel, we are a prime target for the neerdowells, just because we are who we are! Always remember, this is a cyber community. If you aren't comfortable with someone IE: use to seeing them around the threads. Don't drop your guard. Heck , we all got taken for a ride recently , remember? Anyway, just because one person is a jerk, doens't mean everyone is ! You will meet jerks in the real world to ! Like Mitch said , Don't let it get to ya !!!!


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angels4ever says ...



What do you do when someone ask for your frienship and then you find out after accepting on PL there is no such person.I feel safe on PL.This guy lied to me I think.Said he is new.Now I'm unsure an it is hard for me to trust as it is.This makes it harder as I am to friendly sometimes.Now what!!!!It makes me feel to trusrt then again now not to.Why won't he answer.It hard if your not a Police Officer and someone does this to you.Any advice for me.


 


I apologize, but I'm confused a little bit.  What do you mean by "there is no such person".  How long were you friends with the said person? Do you mind giving me some more details/background? You are more than welcome to PM me.




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What do you do when someone ask for your frienship and then you find out after accepting on PL there is no such person.I feel safe on PL.This guy lied to me I think.Said he is new.Now I'm unsure an it is hard for me to trust as it is.This makes it harder as I am to friendly sometimes.Now what!!!!It makes me feel to trusrt then again now not to.Why won't he answer.It hard if your not a Police Officer and someone does this to you.Any advice for me.


 


I apologize, but I'm confused a little bit.  What do you mean by "there is no such person".  How long were you friends with the said person? Do you mind giving me some more details/background? You are more than welcome to PM me.




Bump need more info.



Hi again I wrote.Oh yea I'm sorry what does BUMP mean,lol.

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Trust no one.  Better safe than sorry.    

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Angel, we are a prime target for the neerdowells, just because we are who we are! Always remember, this is a cyber community. If you aren't comfortable with someone IE: use to seeing them around the threads. Don't drop your guard. Heck , we all got taken for a ride recently , remember? Anyway, just because one person is a jerk, doens't mean everyone is ! You will meet jerks in the real world to ! Like Mitch said , Don't let it get to ya !!!!



Hello this is why I love PL I feel safe.I don't trust alot of people.On here Rambo started me and the rest is history.I know others don't like the Police and I do.It is a problem for me.I don't care,lol.I'm not for the piece of crap outside.I'm for the ones who protect me and my son and the rest of the world.I went on facebook as I play alot of crazy games.There I just reciently said I like Pl and another Policeone.com.But I'm on PL all of the time posting and it's been the best thing that ever happend to me.So I got alittle scared.I not a baby but there are some crazy people out there and I don't have any weapons,lol..God Bless All of You out There.

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Trust no one.  Better safe than sorry.    



Thanks I see tht now.

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angels4ever says ...



dfreeman454 says ...



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angels4ever says ...



What do you do when someone ask for your frienship and then you find out after accepting on PL there is no such person.I feel safe on PL.This guy lied to me I think.Said he is new.Now I'm unsure an it is hard for me to trust as it is.This makes it harder as I am to friendly sometimes.Now what!!!!It makes me feel to trusrt then again now not to.Why won't he answer.It hard if your not a Police Officer and someone does this to you.Any advice for me.


 


I apologize, but I'm confused a little bit.  What do you mean by "there is no such person".  How long were you friends with the said person? Do you mind giving me some more details/background? You are more than welcome to PM me.




Bump need more info.



Hi again I wrote.Oh yea I'm sorry what does BUMP mean,lol.



In this context it means dfreeman is agreeing with suzanne's post -request for more information.  BUMP usually means I agree with the quoted statement, or as a stand alone either I agree with the topic, or I'm bringing the topic back to the top of the forum.

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angels4ever says ...



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SuzanneNGa says ...



angels4ever says ...



What do you do when someone ask for your frienship and then you find out after accepting on PL there is no such person.I feel safe on PL.This guy lied to me I think.Said he is new.Now I'm unsure an it is hard for me to trust as it is.This makes it harder as I am to friendly sometimes.Now what!!!!It makes me feel to trusrt then again now not to.Why won't he answer.It hard if your not a Police Officer and someone does this to you.Any advice for me.


 


I apologize, but I'm confused a little bit.  What do you mean by "there is no such person".  How long were you friends with the said person? Do you mind giving me some more details/background? You are more than welcome to PM me.




Bump need more info.



Hi again I wrote.Oh yea I'm sorry what does BUMP mean,lol.



In this context it means dfreeman is agreeing with suzanne's post -request for more information.  BUMP usually means I agree with the quoted statement, or as a stand alone either I agree with the topic, or I'm bringing the topic back to the top of the forum.



Thank-You.i don't even know how to answer these without going to Quote.Can someone tell me.

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At the bottom of the screen are 2 button, one says reply to topic. if you want a comment to stand alone just click on that .


Oh, and if you accept friendship from someone whom later you discover is not someone you want to be friends with, just go to your profile, click on view all friends, and if you look all the way over to the right in blue it says delete. Click by that person's name and poof they are off your friends list !


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Thank-You everyone.This really took me by surprize.I never went on here to ask anything so if i made mistakes excuse me.God Bless all of you and thank you as I was feeling pretty bad.I don't trust alot and it's been getting better this only set me back a second.You have it worse than me.You have to remember I'm only someone that loves to post.I have really no idea what you go through and all my post are sincere.Thank-you for the making me feel better.It's a nightmare in Oakland so now you know why I feel unsafe.God Bless all Of You and Thank-You for making it alittle more easier on me.

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Thank-You CAT_D for all that.I never knew how to do all that.Just postmake comments on news and write,lol.I'm going right now to delete him.I will watch what I do for now on.No more just accepting.God Bless You and Have a Nice Day

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Good for you Angel !!! You don't have to accept every friends request. Take your time and get to know people.  !!! Read the threads, you'll see who's here a lot and who's not. Some people just read the news and look at the pictures. Some of us just like to hang out and talk ! And just wait until a troll show up (Troll, a person who is anti Leo and just here to cause trouble) that will really give you an education !!!


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Remember the old saying. Three people can be trusted if two of them are dead.

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Remember the old saying. Three people can be trusted if two of them are dead.



Unka Den !!! That's not nice, !!!! The quote is, 3 people can be trusted with a secret if 2 of them are dead !!! She's not talking about a secret, just living life ! You are always going to be disappointed, even by the people who love you the most. We are individuals not clones !!!!


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Cat_D.  Negative I must be right. I did quote it the way I heard it. You are also correct however, I never heard it the way you stated. Lets both be correct this time.

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Cat_D.  Negative I must be right. I did quote it the way I heard it. You are also correct however, I never heard it the way you stated. Lets both be correct this time.



Smoochies !!!! "Blessed be the peacemakers, for they will be called the sons of God " Love ya Unka Den !!!


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Good morning,Belinda.We've been friends for a long time and I'll always be in your corner.You are a delight and blessing to those of us who know you and are sorry you have had this problem.God's blessings to you.

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Good for you Angel !!! You don't have to accept every friends request. Take your time and get to know people.  !!! Read the threads, you'll see who's here a lot and who's not. Some people just read the news and look at the pictures. Some of us just like to hang out and talk ! And just wait until a troll show up (Troll, a person who is anti Leo and just here to cause trouble) that will really give you an education !!!



That is what I do when I get a friend request. I always check out their profile, even if they are verified (have a star by their name meaning that PL verified they are Law Enforcement Officers). It used ti be when PL first started most put more information on their profile, now most are more cautious so the profile page is blank. I then check out their activity pages (comments and discussions) on their profile page. If they have nothing or they just bump forums, just add friends and/or comment on photos and no other comments then I don't respond to the invite. If their comments on the various peoples profiles are rude I ignore the invite. As Cat_D and others have said, you don't have to accept the invite. Remember this is a website so you don't really know who you are talking to. Just because they say they are someone doesn't make it so. Remember this with Facebook as well. I have received friend invites on there. If I don't know you and none of my friends on there are your friends I ignore the invite. If I see a friend of mine is their friend I ask them who the person is. I have ignored alot of people on that site. Except for three past college friends, everyone else on there are people I know are connected to Law Enforcement (current or retired sworn and non sworn). Be careful on the internet, just as you need to be in person. Most of all learn to trust that sixth sense. Everyone has it, many just push it aside because they are afraid of offending someone. By ignoring that sixth sense has gotten some people hurt or killed. There are good people on this site. You will learn who they are.

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Good for you Angel !!! You don't have to accept every friends request. Take your time and get to know people.  !!! Read the threads, you'll see who's here a lot and who's not. Some people just read the news and look at the pictures. Some of us just like to hang out and talk ! And just wait until a troll show up (Troll, a person who is anti Leo and just here to cause trouble) that will really give you an education !!!



Here is a good tip.  When someone sends you a friend request, click on the link that takes you to their profile, at the top is a tab that is labeled "ACTIVITY". click on it and you can then go and read some of their postings (click on the "view" under each one) that will give you more of an idea of wht kind of person they are.

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angel dont forget this is the internet anything can happen and does

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angel dont forget this is the internet anything can happen and does



Very true


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In case you want some more insight about this topic, this thread might be of some help.


policelink.monster.com/topics/77452-leo-stance-on-friending-non-leos-on-pl/posts


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 as a  Security Supervisor, if I can not trust that person since he/she lied, do not trust that person. The last one I trusted, I caught being dirty.  Part ways with that one.

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My view on the whole thing? It's the internet. Don't take it so seriously.

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Don't let pieces of trash like that ruin this site for ya.  The biggest portion of us on here are true to what this site is meant for. Good Luck

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