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Posted about 7 years ago

 

huh

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i would need to know more details to even begin to help, rember cops dont always know everything, " just me" . i dont need personal info but more than what i have read so far.

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ok

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what was your moms relationship with mike, how long did she know him, and in what capacity. how long has your mom been married?, whos opinoin does your mom cherish? how old is your mom ?, who did she tell this story to first?, who was second? dose your moms parents still live and if so are they close? how many close friends does your mother have,? where was you mom and friends hanging out at? where does your mom work? if so how long? what does you dad do for a living,? is his parents living? does your mom get along well with the inlaws? does you mom take any prescription meds or been diagnosed with any mental or physcial problems,? what is her education level? take time to respond make sure your not being bias, and know for sure when answering, dont give out anything you dont wont others to know. no names or locations, or medical facilitys.just what you know for sure, also how many kids, who is the oldest and the youngest. does she have any siblings, and if so how do they get along??

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i will be checking this thread later , untill then let her know that she can count on you anytime without pushing yourself on her.....bbl , i have to return to the halls of valhalla.

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odin, how is thor?

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Jonss, Like Odin said," let her know she can count on you anytime." Give her space she will need it,so she can
process what happened. Let her talk when she is ready. Just call and talk with her a couple times a week.
Then maybe go for a visit or have her visit you. God and time are the only things that can heal the pain. I will keep
you and your family in my prayers.

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he is still thor but getting better.

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jonss, there is a book called "Silent Grief", which is for people who have lost someone to suicide. You might get hold of that for your mom.

Or, you could call around and see if there is a suicide survivors' support group in your area.

And, listen, listen, listen. And do it without judging. It is real typical for survivors to feel guilty, even if they don't have anything to feel guilty about-- and it doesn't help to tell them not to feel it. Similarly, it is very typical for them to feel angry-- but that may also increase their guilty feelings. But these are really common reactions to suicide.

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I recently applied for a position asd a police officer with the Atlanta Police Department. After doing all that was required for me to do by my recuiter my application was sent "upstairs" as my recuiter stated. Four weekes passed and I heard nothing from them. I called one day out of the week for the past four weeks. On Friday I received a letter stating that my application is no longer under consideration for hiring, the reason Command Review. I have attempted to contact my recuiter and two other background investigators of Atlanta attempting to understand whats going on. However no one will return my calls. I need to know so that I can find out if I can still work to reach my goal as to become a poilice officer or is there something that I can do or correct so that when I do re-apply my outcome will be what I want.....HELP ME...

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thats typical of atl, i dont think you really want to start out there. try a different department somewere close then try again later after your established.