Scjohnk says ...

BUmp as well. Just becasue someone posts a picture that shows a little cleavage, or some skin, is not an excuse for someone to comment on the picture "Sooooo Hot!!!!!!!. Perhaps the poster of the picture was not looking for such comments. Maintain your professionalism.

 Maintain your professionalism, Huge Bump!

Scjohnk says ...

Perhaps the poster of the picture was not looking for such comments. Maintain your professionalism.

Or perhaps the poster WAS looking for those comments. I agree; this ain't FaceBook!!

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Well ive seen some of the photos and some of the comments, and although I do agree that inappropriate comments should not

be posted. I also believe that if the girl or woman posts a pic of her breasts almost popping out they should be expecting those

comments. IDK call me alittle old fashioned

Bump!!! 

ssu459 says ...

A huge bump.It displays a lack of maturity by those ladies who show 90% of their skin and the males slobbering all over thenselves to ask them for friendship and make juvenile comments.

Bump!

DOUBLE BUMPS to this topic!

Suzanne-It is ladies such as yourself ,KCecala,MarlyB,Denise,LadyG,Catwoman911 and a few others who are the backbone of this site and make it worthwhile.Don't be concerned with those who degrade you,they don't have your class and aren't worth your while.Blessings to you and the others I mentioned.---Dave

Bump again.

Doc

I confess I have let my breasts do the talking a time or two in my life.  I think all women have.  Comes with the territory.  Some greedy women want to expand their 'territory' to the world.  Anywhere.  Anytime.  Welcome to cyberspace and self-made centerfold starfits.

Regarding "career-seekers" in the cyber-stacks of 8X10 glossies.  They still say it in offices everywhere - "Honey we got dime a dozen like you."  As for law enforcement, if your profile says  "I wanna be a cop!  Are you dating?" might send a teensy counter-message, no?

Only a fool would serve her tatas on a tray to gain a job at a law enforcement agency.  Might as well plop down and anounce, "Integrity be damned, I flirt (etc.) for a promotion!"  (Emphasis on "etc.")  Agencies review website histories these days.  So go ahead and let your next (female) boss decide if your cleavage is 'tastefully presented.'  Especially when you've attached a "don't look at it if you don't like it" mindset to your "application."

This kind of boring stuff is what you learn in middle school.   When a woman arranges her tatas to shout volumes across cyberspace, she shouldn't mistake masculine reaction as proof of her moral superiority.  Men appreciate a look totally independent of any personality/ethical system at all.  It's how they're built.

Women who capitalize on that under the aegis of 'job seeking' are angling.  It's sooo easy to do.  So... no self-congratulations.

Book by it's cover'?  You bet.  So... if you tire of advertising your right to flaunt your 'career muffins', just pull the cyber-staple out of your navel and woman up. Then you won't have to publicly argue your integrity under the category of "Methinks the Lady Doth Protest Too Much."

As for 'tastefully presented' cleavage - don't sell mens' intellects short.  They know when a gal is being calculating.  In a 'nice' way.  Turns out cops are a case in point. 

So...who's zoomin' who?

Bump to you Marly.My post was in response to Mu-Eca's post

Friends, you all know I tend to be more liberal on the dress code here at Policelink. 

I do see professional-looking photographs of beautiful women who want their profiles to advertise a 'sexy model' look for obvious reasons.  By most standards the photos are pretty tame.  Yet here, at Policelink, when coupled with a stated career interest, the sincerity factor gets... skewed. 

Within the context of dating...I do get the fact people want to present themselves attractively.  I would simply ask that women who wish to date cops wouldn't 'hard sell' in public here via their photos.  Women (and men) posting photos should keep higher standards in mind. 

Attention to standards shows a friendly interest in preserving the integrity of Policelink's career-based social community. 

We have seen the result of an "if you don't like it don't look at it" non-standard. That non-standard flings the gate open for hipslingin' thong-shots in the bathroom mirror.

Not every woman aims to be subtle when she casts a wide net. 

Here, cleavage and tummy shots are not subtle, however beautifully done.  I would ask every charming attention-seeker to imagine all avatars at Policelink advertising cleavage, bellies and rumps. AND imagine the masculine equivalent.  There are a LOT of cops here who could Chippendale their profile angles.  They choose not to.  There's a good reason.  They care about how Policelink looks, about how THEY look in public. 

Tear a page from their notebook.

Lastly, Miss Modelicious Vivante, don't imagine Policelink's female LEOs, Supporters and Career-Seekers to be absent curvy attributes simply because Forums is absent that kind of hard sell.  Simply, women here choose to exercise public restraint for the greater good.  And when you find the need to armwave your'sincere' intentions, keep in mind the number of cops' wives who also visit this site regularly.  Women who are the foundation of the career you seek.

Policelink has higher standards to uphold. 

Be circumspect. Don't 'position' yourself at this site's expense.  It shouts sexual opportunism at the expense of community harmony.

TASTEFULLY POSED POLICE SUPPORTER SEEKS ONLINE "CAREER ADVICE"

TO LIGHT MY FIRE, PLEASE INQUIRE

I think Marly hit the nail on the head with that last post!!

bill9823 says ...

Mu_eca says ...

 

 

I didnt mean no disrespect with my pics. People tend to judge wrongfully by just looking at how someone looks on the outside, without giving the chance to get to know the person inside, is whats inside that matters not the looks.

No one here knows where i been or where im going to end up in life.  In the past i been a V.O.D.V  and no one knows how a person's shoes feels until you actually wear it.

So to had join such a "High Standard" and support one another site & be treated like this without giving me the chance to aquaint professionally, or accept an apology is very disappointing.

This is one of the reason why so many people in this world are not in peace with eachother, the love, respect, & understanding one another is left in iceage.

Enjoy & Godbless

 

My thoughts are that maybe you should have placed some tasteful pictures on an album and left the ones others are talking about for another site. I think people were judging the pictures and not necessarily the person.

You will find a great support group here and lots of worthwhile information if you stay around. You can make many friends here that wll help you in your quest.

I will address her first statement: It is almost impossible to undo a first impression.  Some advice to you, put your best foot forward the first time and you will not have to expend a great amount of time undoing a negative impression.  It's cause and effect here!  You caused it and are not liking the effect.  How can anyone judge you differently than we did?  YOU presented yourself as what we term a badge bunny.  YOU did this.  Take full responsiblity for the response you are receiving to the pictures YOU posted.

We live in the real world, not fantasy land or the ice age.  I don't care who you are or how old you are... this site plainly states who and what we are and no where does it say or infer that we are a dating/hook up site.  You found it through Monster.com which is a professional job seeking site.  That should have been your first clue. You are old enough to comprehend the differences between professional and dating sites.

And you are old enough to know that the pictures you posted here were inappropriate.  I have worked in law enforcement for a long time and the damage females who present themselves as ONLY a sexual being and use that to move up the ladder make it more difficult for those of us who are doing this for the right reasons.  When I put on my uniform I don't feel sexy, because this is not a sexy job.  It's SERIOUS business.  You minimize those of us who are doing the job and I take umbrage with those methods/tactics. 

DonnaLynn

Thank you DonnaLynn and MarlyB for your forthright and professional summations of this subject.She has evidently left the site(her loss),but did so defiantly and still don't believe she comprehended what anybody was trying to advise her of.I had originally felt badly about her leaving but some people just have a great deal of difficulty listening to reason.

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