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I have been through all of that too. For the first three years of my life my birth mother sexually abused me and my brother. My brother and i were put into foster care where we were molested and physically abused even more. i got adopted at the age of four and had to go through alot of therapy to help me through this life. i can't change my past but i can change my future.


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That is right GuardianPolice...you own your future.  Take care.  Welcome to PL and I will send you a pm to help you know where to post an introduction and start meeting other new people here.


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WOW Sherry, you are a true suvivor!!  one of the main reasons I took this job was to protect children.  I take it personal when a child is harmed and do ALL that I can to protect them!!  I was a child abuse detective for a few years and you get a real cold wake up call that things like this really go on in this world!!   I'm glad to see that your life has turned out so well.....God Bless and good luck in your future ventures!!  Stephen

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Thank you for your response tactical237 and your work as a child abuse detective...your efforts in the protection and welfare of children are greatly appreciated.


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I am at a loss for words. You are a survivor and God was watching over you. Thanks for sharing and best to you.

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Thank you Chief Dennis.

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It is awful that kids go through this. I was physically, sexually and emotionally abused by both of my step parents. I grew up and of course married abusive men. I have had three abusive marriages, but I finally broke the cycle in 2005. I hope this person is now a strong woman.

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I am glad you were able to break the cycle KC9LKS.....and yes that person is now a strong woman....she is me.


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God Bless the Children for they are the message we send to the future.

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I agree DALLASCRANE....what we teach and mentor to our children  will reflect how they mature into adults and how they develop and change the course of our nation.

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 God Blessed You.  God will not give us things we can not handle.  God used you and is still using you.  Thank You for sharing.

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Thank you most sincerely Tazpaulsam,


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Sherry,


Thanks for your story. I am also a survivor. As a child I was also sexually abused. I have since been married twice, the first one was to an abusive person and my second marriage is to a wonderful man (in which I am still married to). I have better myself and I have a great and caring family. My heart dropped to the bottom of my stomach as I read your story. It took me back to when I was a young child and going through all of the abuse that I went through and then it was as if my life fast forwarded right before my eyes to when I was married to my ex-husband and the abuse that I went through with him. I pray for all who have ever been through what I have been through as child or as an adult. My heart sinks every time I hear of a child or grown up who has ever had to go through any kind of abuse. Thanks for sharing your story to us.


To everybody who is a detective who works on getting pretators' off the street and to the men and women who are out there to mentor the people who have had to go through the abuse I just wanted to say Thank You for the job that you do.

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Thank you most kindly LaDET for your continued support.  I commend you Cathy for seeing yourself through to the other side of abuse to a healthy and loving marriage.  Your statement of encouragment and support of the LE community says it all.


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My children are survivors also.  My mothers new husband molested them pre-pubety and now, at 17 and 18 they are living examples of how children can make it with love and support.  My mother supported her husband and we still do not speak to her.  But they have the support of the rest of the family and it has been a growth experience for all of us. 


Thank you for sharing your story.

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Smartcooke2007 I am sorry your family had to go through that experience but am glad to hear they are doing well with your love and support. 

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It takes a strong person to overcome something like this.  Glad to have you as a friend.


 

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Wow. All I can say is wow you are a true survivor and hero. It takes a strong soul to withstand something that scars others. His eyes are always watching in everything we do. His eyes are watching. I believe that a person can be messed up from something like that from happening. But if you keep a positive outlook on things that it will get better more than likely it will and the pain will go away. I was sexually abused when I was a kid by my cousin. And yes children do listen and they watch. I can tell in a persons eyes when to get away. Luckily there were other people there that night. So when I got away I stayed away. Till this day I have not recieved an apology. I forgive him because it's better to forgive and hurts worse tohold grudges.

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Thank you buddy37 for your response.  Redneck_barbie77 you are a strong person that overcame her  hardship and moved on with her life ...and yes.....it teaches you survival skills.

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Sherry,


God bless you!


Thank you for sharing your testimony of a child's endurance and tribulation, in tears with a lump in my throat, we're living in sad times. Sherry, I'm an Oath Keeper and we have many Police Officers, Sheriff's, Military, veterans, Fire Fighters, First Responders, Nurses, citizens...etc, that I would like to share your message with, only with your permission. God bless you through out your life and keep you safe! May You and Yours have a very Merry Christmas! God Bless!


Our country is being demoralized on purpose, it's up to each of us to change it.


~Bill

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Alabamian- thank you and that has always been my mission in telling my story.....don't quit on yourself and don't quit on life.

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you are truly a sourse of redemption and courage. in my 35 years as a cop i always strived to pay paticular attention to children as their strength always amazed me, and i enjoyed working with them . you have made a great point and it is well taken. You are a survivor and have chosen a true path, My hopes for your continued success are great. So many have taken different paths to self destruction, yet your choices have made you special.  Thank you for sharing and being a friend, stay safe now, and be well, Beau


Strong men stand ready in the night while those sleep to visit violence to those who would do us harm, Sir Winston Churchill.

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Thank you most sincerely Beau3613 for your support.

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I can understand your feelings. My abuse was not ritualistic, but from the hands of my father, a policeman in a small town. Who does one turn to at such an age?


For me, it was God and the church. I will forever be dealing with aspects of the abuse, but I am older and wiser and I am beginning to feel safe. Never stop growing!

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Anasarca....I agree with your words .."Never stop growing!.....it is through growing that we gain the greatest treasures in life.

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Your story is so moving. It's unfortunate that any of this happened to you. But you allowed this tragic situation to make you into a great person. I wish you the best in getting this story out!

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Thank you DoctorMike.

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Oh my eyes are anything but dry! Your story touched me beyond words and I don't think I'll ever truly understand what you went through. All I can say is that it was by God's grace that you survived. All things work together for good, and that is just what your life story will bring. You have already changed lives and the way people see themselves and others. You've changed my life. I can't believe how good I've got it! Thank you so much, Thank you, and may God be with you always.

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