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My dear Sherry.....I could feel your pain and confusion when I read about you.  After reading a couple of paragraphs I knew it was you.  My mom always taught me to reach out to God because he guides those when they cannot guide themselves.  Always hold your head up high.  You are a survivor and a very good person, I can feel it, reach out to those who need you when you see their eyes and the confusion that you once had.  You'll know right away.  God Bless you and I am very honored to be part of your online friend group.  Keep those eyes twinkling......so long for now.


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Cateyes333_000 strong communties that teach and emulate socially appropriate mannerisms and the essence of professionalism have a great potential of producing youth that grow up and have the same likeness.


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My Lord....Words aren't enough but I applaud you and your efforts to remain a strong, God loving woman and a fighter.


God bless and keep you in his loving arms always.


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Sherry,


I have worked several child abuse cases but not like this one. I have seen what the abuse does to the children as they get older and a lot turn to substance abuse. I've seen them struggle as they go through life and I've seen some die. I am very glad you made it and shared your story with us. You will suceed no matter what goal you set for yourself.

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Thank you maverick and John Lovett9  and I also see the effects of all kinds of abuse issues in the patients I care for on the psych unit....and as you said substance abuse often becomes an unhealthy and debilitating retreat for many.   I appreciate you working those cases....none of them are easy.


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That story was amazing and opened my eyes, god bless

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Sherry that is a very inspirational story, I had tears as I read each line. God bless your strength and may he keep you strong in your journeys ahead.  Good luck and god bless you.


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Thank you dominicanpati .

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This is an interesting topic. The way it was typed made it hard to follow at first. But I can understand where you are coming from. Keep on fighting the good fight. Its the only way to help others who really need it.

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Thank you coplovescoins.....glad you could follow to the true messsage.


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I do remember reading this a while back, and really thought I commented on it. But it looks like I didn't, sorry! bad things happen to good people all the time. With no ryme or reason, and most times when people hurt others, there is never acknowledgement or appologies. It is over looked and swept under a rug! Which makes things more painful for the person hurting! It's uncalled for, and most definitely the worse feeling anyone could ever be forced to have to live with! People scare me for a reason, and this story of yours is one of many reasons! I will appologize for all the rotten people that has and ever will live on this earth and then hand this to God! Man He really is the only one strong enough to deal with this. He made these people, and owns all the defects in life. We can't carry around what other people do to us because the burden because too heavy!


God Bless you and what you have made of your life!


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Thank you for your comment sdc81 ....I am a psych nurse so I see the devastation of abuse from many different angles.....many victims suffer from long term effects and turn to substance abuse and all measures of inappropriate coping skills to handle those events.


I wrote "The Listening Ears of Children"   to teach, offer empathy and some inspiration to those who lost themselves aftere an abusive experience ...that actually is the goal of many abusers.....to bring their victims down to their  same miserable level of existence.   Not necessarily  that they would actually abuse as them....but that they would have the same worthless and demeaning feelings. 


Unfortunately,  many victims believe everything their perps told them.  That is my greatest message I would like people to remember and walk away with.....they were not responsible for the abuse.


What helps strengthen a person to resist the impact ot abusive situations is understanding and integrating the concepts of conflict resolution and emotional intelligence.


 

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Unfortunately, with abuse comes a permanate black mard that sits on the top of people's hearts. It can be impossible to get rid of somedays! I am sure that with a lot of praying it can go away too!

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No, there needs to be no permanent black mark on one's heart.


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I am so glad that you have made it through those terrible years. I will take your story with me as I deal with children who have been victims of horrible abuse and know that there is hope for these precious little ones. Thank-you for sharing such a painful past with us, god bless you for your stength.

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Thank you drneville....and that is my purpose in sharing "The Listening Ears of Children".....to give hope and encouragement to others and that LE may truly realize their efforts do make a difference.


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Wow i dont know what to say. This story is very moving   

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Sherry,


Thank you for sharing your story I have to admit it has touched my Heart and really makes me want to be a better person than what I think or people already think I am.... This experience has molded you into the person you are today. Stay strong and always keep your head up. You truly are an inspiration.  HONOR FIRST


 


 

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Sherry,


Thank you for sharing your story. Its amazing that although you were part of such a terrible past, you were able to overcome such adversity. I want to say thank you for doing what you know is right, and doing so much to help others. .

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Thank you FCSD499, BorderPatrolGirl,and stose, I greatly appreciate your comments and support.


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God bless you Sherry.  Thank you for sharing!

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God bless you also sgtdave47 and all other who strive to make this world a better place...


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You are a true warrior and survivor Sherry. Your story, along with others, is what drives me to get up every morning and throw my gear on. Thank you for sharing your story, it takes real courage. 

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Thank you DirtyDan.


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Lets keep giving it a thumbs up so it will stay the most recent topic...Everybody, please bump it before you leave....

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Thank you LaDET.


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Thank you A.L.and Crystal for your responses.  I tell my story to let people realize it is never about what happened to you in the past....it is about your attitude ....perps are all about trying to destroy the good and the decent.....to demean and insult and disrespect and belittle all that is good....I say from the moment you are free you are also free to make the choice you did not have during the abuse....one can cower and live in fear for the rest of your life.....or you cah be proactive and positive minded and work for the betterment of your community....and especially for the children!



Sherry


 


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I get the message ACopAdmirer   :)      I still can't get pics to copy on the forum pages.  ...thanks sweetie!


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Great Post!

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Thank you Redator509.


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